“The Dodgers won the pennant my senior year, must have been 1941. We all cut gym class to go see the game. We saw our teachers there, too.”
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For a very long time, I’ve read about baseball in the 1940s and the 1950s. I’ve read about the glory days of baseball in New York, of Yogi Berra and Joe DiMaggio and Mickey Mantle, of Jackie Robinson, Pee Wee Reese and Roy Campanella.
I’ve never, until tonight, actually talked to someone about it.
The way the face lights up, remembering one’s favorite players, how you could get into Ebbett’s field for $.10 and get a decent seat on the third base line for $.35, the despair when talking about the events of 1957…
Tonight, almost by chance, I had the chance to talk.
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I’m in Florida for the weekend, and I’m staying with my grandmother.
I’ve known that Nana is a baseball fan and that she was a Dodgers fan, but not much more than that.
The dinner conversation tonight–over steamers, pizza and my brother’s steak sandwich–ambled like only a dinner conversation can, moving from one topic to the next.
First, it was food. Then Europe. Then art. Then a conversation about a house-museum in upper (way, way upper) Manhattan, and an off-hand remark about going to visit as a young girl.
“Nana,” I said, “I thought you said you grew up in Brooklyn?”
“I was eleven when I moved to Brooklyn. I was born in the Bronx and lived in Manhattan.”
I did not know this.
“So,” I said, having never before made the connection, “you got to see the original Yankee Stadium?”
“Of course,” she said. I can do the math in my head and realize that sometime between Nana’s birth and her move to Brooklyn, she got to see Babe Ruth and Lou Gehrig play. No wonder she likes baseball…
The conversation shifts, then, to the Dodgers, and to her memories of the team.
“Robinson, Reese, Campanella…I can’t remember who played first base.”
So begins a mad chase, my brother and I, using smart phones to try to pin down the first baseman. I suggest looking for the 1955 Dodgers–the year they won the World Series–but Nana says that’s too late.
That’s when Nana says she’s thinking of the year the Dodgers won the pennant, the year she cut gym class to go see, and that year had to be 1941.
So we look up the 1941 Dodgers on Baseball Reference, and I read off the names.
Owen.
Camilli. (Good old Dolph! )
Herman.
Reese.
Cooki– Lavagetto
Reiser.
Medwick.
Walker.
“We had some outfield.”
We read through all of the names, Nana making her comments about the ones she remembers–Medwick, especially, since she always sat by third base.
We compare the roster in 1955–more names I recognize–Campanella, Hodges, Newcombe, Podres, even a 19-year-old Sandy Koufax.
Then comes 1957.
“I never forgave them. I was done.”
That one line explains why I am a Yankees fan–there aren’t Dodgers in Brooklyn any more.
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How often, I wonder, do mothers and daughters bond over baseball?
What about grandmothers and granddaughters?
We talk about baseball as something that’s passed from fathers to sons, and only recently from fathers to daughters, and yet, here I was, bonding with my grandmother, not over European art or literature or travel as we often do, but baseball (and a little Jets football, too).
So, sure, Nana can’t stand the Yankees, but I’ll give her a pass on that one.
She has memories, and with the memories come the stories, and just that little bit more texture to a world now relegated to books and old film.
Her stories make it real.
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Rebecca, I was just reading some of Todd’s old posts and ended up here. You commented on so many of his posts so I thought I would take the time to comment. Todd would have loved this post – his Nana taught him how to keep score. Fortunately Todd and I bonded over baseball, he patiently taught me about the game and I will treasure that forever. Many years ago we were at my grandparents’ home (in NC) and baseball came up. My grandfather proceeded to tell Todd that he was at Don Larsen’s perfect game! I was so shocked that I did not this about my grandfather and he said “Well, we have never really talked baseball have we?” When Todd was in Cooperstown for the Hall of Fame inductions later that year, Don Larsen was there signing – Todd got my grandfather a ball signed. My next trip to NC I took the baseball in a case of course to my grandfather. Todd had even taped a message to my grandfather so when I gave it to him I also played the message that told how Todd had talked to Don Larsen and told him about my grandfather. My grandfather then left, almost skipping, to go show his friends at the diner his baseball. Now, many years later, I have that baseball on a shelf with all of the other signed baseballs Todd and I collected together – mostly from minor leaguers. I will always have a special bond with baseball through Todd – thank goodness Opening Day is less than a month away.
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